Up until a few years ago I used to analyze what I "wanted" in a relationship, life, friends, career. Slowly that has shifted into what I need and some if not all of what I necessarily wanted no longer exists... Life is funny... I am feeling very hopeful that I am on my way to getting what I need... I try to remain positive and get rid of all things/people that are negative. The energy and the stress of having people in your life or around you that do not have your best interest at heart is unhealthy. Everything that is good to you may not be good for you... Analyze the people in your life. Are they worthy? Do they deserve to be called a friend? So what if intimacy with a partner is great, how does that person treat you outside the bedroom? These are all the things we need to ask ourselves and more before we give people rank in our lives.